In many ways, I am already the man I want to be. Articulate, attractive, athletic, caring, kind, thoughtful, respectful, passionate, reflective, calm, and introspective. I am also a son, a brother, an uncle, a gay man, a divorcee, a Christian, an INFJ, and an Enneagram 2. I am a counselor, adventurer, traveler, dreamer, dancer, musician,…
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I have been in Denver for 2 months now. May and June 2019 have come and gone, and I’m mostly settled here. I have a homebase, a job, health insurance, a paycheck, a car. However, I’m still looking for 3 things in Denver: deeper friendships, a church family, and a romantic relationship. Of those three,…
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As of today, Monday, July 8, 2019, I have been single for 553 days. Over 18 months of being on my own, worrying primarily about myself. In so many ways, it has been such a blessing to have this time to experience life, reflect, and get to know myself and my Creator better. In my…
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Here’s a new idea I tried for journaling this week that I found online. It appealed to me because it involved threes. These are some lists of my likes/dislikes/experiences that I wrote in my journal. Three things I can’t go without God aka The Holy Trinity aka Jesus My mind – the ability to learn,…
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As I’ve begun to settle into my new life in Denver, CO, I’ve been trying to be deliberate about meeting people, experiencing new things, and going to places and events that are sometimes outside my comfort zone. I’m not sure if it is really working, as I would say the end goal would be to…
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I’ve officially started on my NZ Recommendations list. If you want to see the full list, you can click the link below. If any of the books or media interest you, get in touch with me and we can try to experience it together.
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My last book recommendation is complete. Just 2 movies and a TV season to watch. Look for those before next Monday!
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Days 175-176 (Wed Feb 13th – Thur Feb 14th) Wednesday and Thursday were long travel days as I flew back to Wellington from Los Angeles. I picked up Tuatoru from airport parking and drove north to Taupo. As I got to Taupo, I heard about an Art Deco festival in Napier. Napier is a 2…
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I’m down to 4 recommendations left. 1 books, 2 movies, and a TV show remain. I’m hoping to have all of them done in the next few days. I’m excited to be finished with my list, but that just means I get to start on my 37-item NZ recommendation list!
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